The Real Neighbours Report 2025

• Almost 3 in 4 (72%) believe Aussies are less interested in knowing their neighbours compared to 20 years ago
• More than 1 in 4 (26%) have received passive-aggressive messages from neighbours, rising to around 1 in 3 (34%) among Gen Z
• More than 4 in 5 (81%) would be deterred from buying or renting a property if 'bad neighbours’ were present
• Almost 2 in 3 (64%) say being friendly and approachable is the key to being a good neighbour in 2025

Backyard BBQs, friendly chats in the lift, or a wave to a neighbour across the fence – these simple moments have long been part of the Aussie dream. But these days, a knock at the door from a cranky neighbour (or even the police) is becoming a more familiar reality.

The Aussie spirit of community – once a cornerstone of our national identity – seems to be fading fast. This decline raises important questions about the impact of modern life on neighbour relations – is it technology, longer working hours, or a shift in values that's driving the change?

The Real Neighbours Report 2025 explores how Australians are navigating modern neighbourly dynamics – from declining connections and digital disputes to the qualities we value in a good neighbour. The study found a significant shift in social dynamics, with most (72%) saying Aussies are less interested in knowing their neighbours compared to 20 years ago. The research also highlights a broader disconnect – almost two-thirds (62%) have lived next to someone for more than six months without ever meeting them. In fact, only a third (33%) proactively introduce themselves to neighbours upon moving in, suggesting a widespread reluctance to initiate new relationships.

Rising neighbourly tensions in Australia

Passive aggression

Forget borrowing a cup of sugar – these days, maintaining a good relationship with a neighbour can feel like navigating a minefield. In fact, more than a quarter (26%) have received passive-aggressive messages from their neighbours, with the problem particularly prominent among Gen Z (34%), Gen Y (31%), and in urban areas of Sydney and Perth.

Home security tech vs. neighbourly trust

Adding fuel to the fire is the rise of home security technology. While many are embracing cameras and drones for peace of mind, a significant level of discomfort remains, particularly when the lens is pointed in our direction. Nearly half (45%) of households now have security cameras, but comfort levels are mixed when it comes to neighbours' cameras. Almost a quarter (24%) are very comfortable with neighbours potentially filming their property, while 2 in 5 (41%) are only somewhat comfortable, and a significant 1 in 5 (20%) are not comfortable at all. And with nearly two-thirds (63%) expressing privacy concerns about drones in their neighbourhood, it begs the question: are we sacrificing neighbourly harmony for a sense of security?

The high cost of bad neighbours

Bad neighbours aren't just annoying, they can also drive down property values and even push people to move. In fact, a staggering 4 in 5 (81%) say they would be deterred from buying or renting a property if ‘bad neighbours’ were present.

And many Aussies aren’t just talking about it – they’re taking action. Almost a third (32%) have taken steps to escape difficult neighbours, with 1 in 5 (20%) considering a move and more than 1 in 10 (12%) actually relocating. The numbers are even higher among younger generations, with 36% of Gen Z and 41% of Gen Y having considered or made a move due to neighbourly issues.

Neighbour disputes in the modern age

From picket fences to Facebook feuds – the digital divide

Technology can bring neighbours together – but it can also drive them apart. While 2 in 5 Aussies are part of neighbourhood group chats and social media platforms, they’re not always harmonious.

More than 2 in 5 users (42%) have either called someone out or been called out in these groups, suggesting an increase in online disputes. These tensions often stem from common neighbourhood pet peeves, such as excessive noise (38%), rudeness and disrespect (23%), and nosey neighbours (22%). In fact, nearly 1 in 3 (32%) say they have had disagreements with neighbours over issues like noise and parking.

While nearly half (48%) prefer to resolve conflicts through direct communication, others choose to ignore the issue or avoid the neighbour altogether. Perhaps it’s time for a digital etiquette guide for neighbourhood groups?

Are Aussies losing touch with community?

Beyond the tensions and privacy concerns, a core question remains: are Aussies simply becoming less connected to their neighbours? While nearly half (47%) say they have met their neighbours casually, fewer are taking the initiative to form deeper connections.

Only a third (33%) proactively introduce themselves to neighbours, with rates higher in NSW and ACT (37%) and lower in Victoria and Tasmania (30%). This trend is even more pronounced among younger Aussies, with 7 in 10 Gen Z (71%) and Gen Y (70%) admitting they have lived next to someone for over six months without ever meeting them. Coupled with the majority view (72%) that neighbourly interest is on the decline, it paints a concerning picture for the future of local relationships.

What makes a good neighbour in 2025?

The key to shaping neighbourhood communities

Despite the challenges, many of us still value a strong sense of community. Nearly 7 in 10 (69%) feel there is some level of neighbourhood watch ethos in their community, and for nearly half (47%), casual conversations have led to friendships. On a practical level, neighbourly bonds offer real benefits: a sense of safety (72%), help with property care (64%), and mutual support during emergencies (64%).

So, what makes a good neighbour in 2025? According to the Real Neighbours Report 2025, it comes down to friendliness, respect and consideration. More than 4 in 5 us (83%) consider ourselves good neighbours – and we believe being friendly and approachable (64%) tops the list. That’s followed by respecting privacy and boundaries (58%), keeping noise down (58%), being considerate (56%), helpful when needed (50%), and being trustworthy (50%).

By prioritising these values, we can help rebuild the neighbourly spirit – and shape stronger, more supportive communities.